“The yes-man is your enemy, but your friend will argue with you.” -- Russian proverb. Three public figures in the news seemed to have been ill-served by yes men (or yes women).
John Edwards' "yes man" Andrew Young agreed to his request to publicly say he was the father of Rielle Hunter's baby, when the father was most probably Edwards. Both Young and Edwards would have been better off in the long run if Edwards were treated like an adult (past the age of 50) and told he had to take responsibility for his own irresponsible behavior and his own baby. What was Young thinking? Even if Edwards in his pridefulness, panic, narcissism and embarrassment promised to "take care of you for life," what would accepting such a bribe do to your own reputation and sense of efficacy? Obviously Young allowed his own identity to be merged with that of Edwards, to the detriment of both of them. But it says something about Edwards' character that he wanted someone else to take the fall for his behavior.
Michael Jackson was surrounded by "yes men," so-called fans who enabled his drug addiction and wouldn't tell him the truth, that he was killing himself.
One reason Sarah Palin resigned as governor of Alaska was that she apparently had a very thin skin. The "yes men" she surrounded herself with tolerated no criticism of her, even constructive criticism, according to Daniel Larison in the American Conservative. "Palin was surrounded and cheered on by almost nothing but yes-men," he wrote, "because once anyone tried to offer any kind of criticism that person
seemed to become persona non grata in her circle and in the wider conservative world pretty quickly."
Surrounding oneself with "yes men" and sycophants often proves, in the long run, to be self-destructive.
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